NEW CHOICE!
Title: Harnessing the Power of Neuropsychology: Making New Choices to Rewire Your Brain
I’m in an improv group FOR FUN! What some might consider pure torture, I enjoy. The challenge of coming up with decisions on the spot and committing to them is a healthy practice for me in my personal and professional life. Also, laughter is the best medicine and this troupe called Tilt Think I am in, brings me joy, connection and a wonderful place for my creativity. If you missed it, in this blog I talk about how comedy came into my life at the perfect time.
Tilt Think One Year Anniversary Show at The Workshop Brewing Company, Traverse City, MI //. 4.29.24
We play a game called “New Choice.” The players get a suggestion from the audience about a location and a relationship between the two players on stage. As the improvise the scene, making choices like, “I’m so glad to be riding the bus with you today.” The director will shout, “NEW CHOICE!” to which the player will change course, “I like riding the unicorn with you today.” As their scene plays out, the director will guide their scene into an interesting story and the players will make equally hilarious choices to keep the audience engaged.
Often times in coaching, people see only options when then make decisions. They can see a fork in the road where they must choose to go left or right. That’s it. When faced with only two choices, naturally … they get discouraged. But what if I as the coach yell, “NEW CHOICE!” In other words, “What other options do you have?”
It’s important that we change our beliefs about possibilities. Why? Because it’s easy to get caught in the echo chamber of our minds. Once we do this, we believe our own lies and they become our actions. In coaching, we are focusing on your mindset and shifting beliefs that no longer serve you. That’s right … you’re making a NEW CHOICE!
In the labyrinth of life, where every turn presents a new challenge and every decision shapes our reality, lies the profound ability to rewire our brains. Our brains, those complex networks of neurons firing and synapses connecting, hold within them the key to unlocking a new reality. But how do we unleash this power? How do we navigate the intricate pathways of our minds to forge a new path forward? The answer lies in the intersection of choice and neuropsychology.
Understanding Neuropsychology: The Science Behind Brain Rewiring
Neuropsychology, often regarded as the marriage between neuroscience and psychology, delves into the intricate workings of the brain and how they influence behavior, thoughts, and emotions. At its core, neuropsychology explores the plasticity of the brain—the remarkable ability of our neural networks to adapt, change, and reorganize in response to new experiences and stimuli.
Central to this understanding is the concept of neuroplasticity. Contrary to the once-prevailing belief that our brains are hardwired and immutable, neuroplasticity reveals that our brains possess a remarkable capacity for change. Every thought we think, every action we take, leaves its mark on the neural landscape of our brains, sculpting and shaping our perceptions and behaviors.
The Power of Choice: Shaping Your Brain, Shaping Your Reality
In the vast expanse of our lives, amidst the cacophony of choices that confront us daily, lies the seed of transformation. Each choice we make, no matter how seemingly insignificant, sends ripples through the neural fabric of our brains, sculpting new pathways and connections.
Consider the individual who, faced with adversity, chooses to adopt a growth mindset—a belief in their ability to learn and grow from challenges. Through the lens of neuropsychology, we witness the profound impact of this choice on their brain. With each affirmation of resilience, each embrace of failure as a stepping stone to success, neural pathways associated with perseverance and resilience strengthen, paving the way for a more resilient and adaptive mindset.
Conversely, consider the individual ensnared in the grip of negative thought patterns, their mind shackled by self-doubt and limiting beliefs. Through the lens of neuropsychology, we observe the insidious effects of these thought patterns on their brain. With each rumination on inadequacy, each internalized criticism, neural pathways associated with self-doubt and negativity deepen, reinforcing a cycle of despair and stagnation.
Toxic Positivity vs. the Power of Neuropsychology: Distinguishing Between Facades and Genuine Change
In recent years, the concept of toxic positivity has garnered attention—a phenomenon characterized by the relentless pursuit of positivity at the expense of authentic emotional experiences. While the intentions behind toxic positivity may stem from a desire to uplift and inspire, its implications can be detrimental, masking genuine emotions and inhibiting meaningful growth.
Herein lies the distinction between toxic positivity and the power of neuropsychology. Whereas toxic positivity may offer fleeting solace through superficial affirmations and platitudes, the power of neuropsychology invites us to embark on a journey of genuine transformation—one rooted in science, introspection, and intentional action.
We are on the search for new evidence to support a new belief.
Rather than masking our struggles with hollow positivity, the power of neuropsychology empowers us to confront our challenges head-on, to interrogate our thoughts and beliefs, and to make deliberate choices that reshape our neural landscape. It acknowledges the complexity of human experience, honoring both the light and the shadow within us.
Practical Strategies for Brain Rewiring: Navigating the Path to Transformation
Armed with the knowledge of neuropsychology, we embark on a voyage of self-discovery and transformation. But where do we begin? How do we navigate the labyrinth of our minds to forge a new path forward?
Mindfulness Meditation: By cultivating present-moment awareness through mindfulness meditation, we cultivate the capacity to observe our thoughts without judgment, creating space for introspection and insight.
Cognitive-Behavioral Techniques: Through cognitive-behavioral techniques, such as cognitive restructuring and behavioral activation, we challenge and reframe maladaptive thought patterns, fostering resilience and adaptive coping strategies.
Visualization and Affirmations: By harnessing the power of visualization and affirmations, we imprint our desired outcomes onto the canvas of our minds, activating neural pathways associated with motivation and goal attainment.
Seeking Support and Guidance: Whether through therapy, coaching, or peer support groups, seeking support and guidance can provide invaluable insight and accountability on our journey of self-discovery and growth.
Embrace the Journey of Transformation
As we navigate the labyrinth of our minds, let us embrace the journey of self-discovery and growth, knowing that with each NEW CHOICE we make, we shape not only our brains but also the reality we inhabit. Through the lens of neuropsychology, we unlock the potential for profound transformation, forging a new path forward illuminated by the light of self-awareness, resilience, and possibility.
Love, Shea